Love is an ideal but in your mind it can not be a physical reality.
Love is in all its facet, a desire of the heart and emotions, just like loving your parents in their entirety.
It all about giving love in the sense of warmth as opposed to saying for example " I want to dislike you, hate you, kill you all day long".
The difference is that love is an answer to human care and devotion.
While disliking is the response of hurt and sadness in your lives.